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Honor your father and mother, as The Lord your God has commanded you,

so that you may live long and that it may go well with you 

in the land that The Lord your God is giving you.

Deuteronomy 5:16

On Thursday I was walking down the street to Hyperion Public.  The day had been busy.  I had completed a number of meetings.  But the time it took to complete those meetings meant that my “to do” list for the day was bigger than the day was long.  But here I was walking down the street to another meeting.

I was going to meet a man whom I will call “John”.  John and I have very little in common.  He is an atheist.  I am a pastor.  He is a film maker who has worked on some horror/sci fi shows.  I don’t like horror.  We have very little in common but we make time to get together as often as we can.

This time we talked about John’s sense of awe in being a part of the universe.  Since our last meeting he had posted a video on Facebook on that theme.  I had watched it and was looking forward to talking to him about it.  You see, that sense of awe was one thing we did have in common.

Our conversation, as always, was wonderful.  We went back and forth through string theory to multiple universes.  At one point we were both laughing as we imagined being joined by our alter egos in another universe.  We decided that “John II” would be a Hassidic Jew while my alter ego would be a committed atheist.

Time flew by.  We both had to leave before we wanted to.

As I walked back, rejuvenated, I reflected on this strange and wonderful relationship.  What made it so good?  I decided that the best word to describe it was that we honored each other.  That honor is what gave this relationship its healing powers.

Honor your father and mother is the fifth commandment.  The first two commandments are all about God.  The third verse is about how we speak of God.  The fourth commandment is about getting God in our calendar.  But then, in this command, we shift from God to people.  It is about how we treat family members.  Honor your father and mother.

This shift from the vertical to the horizontal is linked by a promise.  The promise is part of the initial relationship that God made with Abraham.  He told Abram to go from what he knew to “a land I will show you”.  In that land his descendants would prosper.  This commandment, in both Exodus and Deuteronomy, links this land with honoring your father and mother.

Honor your father and mother, as The Lord your God has commanded you,

so that you may live long and that it may go well with you 

in the land that The Lord your God is giving you.

The commandment is adapted by Christians in the New Testament.

Honor your father and mother-which is the first command with a promise-so that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth.     Ephesians 6:2

In Deuteronomy the fulfillment of the command is connected to security and survival in the land God has promised his people.  The idea was that the Jewish people in that land would embody God in such a way that the other people’s of this planet would journey to Jerusalem to come back into a relationship with God.

In the last days the mountain of the Lord’s temple will be established as the highest of the mountains; it will be exalted above the hills, and all nations will stream to it.  May people’s will say “Come, let us go up to the mountain of the Lord, to the house of the God of Jacob.  He will teach us his ways, so that we may walk in his paths.”                  Isaiah 2:2-3a

In the New Testament, however, the plan shifts.  Rather than drawing everyone to a central location, the good news will go from that land to the rest of the earth.

…you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes on you; and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth.   Acts 2:8

And, with the shift in the plan comes the shift to the commandment.  The promise is expanded from a particular piece of real estate to the entire planet; “…that you may enjoy long life on the earth.”

The promise of the commandment shifts in the New Testament.

But this isn’t the only part of the commandment which changes.  The honor, which in the command is limited to “mother and father” is extended.

Show proper respect to everyone, love your fellow believers, fear God, honor the emperor.

1 Peter 2:17

The Greek term, which is translated as “proper respect” at the beginning of our passage, could also be translated “honor”.  ”Honor everyone…”

We are called, not only to honor our mother and father, but to honor everyone.

We all have a sense of what it means to honor someone.  Honoring someone is to ascribe value to them.  But the challenge is what honoring actually looks like on the ground.

The first step in honoring someone is simple.  It is just to listen to them.  You honor someone by simply taking time to listen to what they say.

The second step is to validate the unique perspective of the other person without judgment.  You not only need to listen to them, but you find some things that they say interesting and worth hearing more.

Finally, and this is critical for us as followers of Christ, honoring someone means listening for God’s challenge in what the other person says.

This is the most surprising thing about honoring the other in my experience.  I find that I actually need those relationships with people outside of the faith in order to become the Christian that God would have me be..to actually do the things for him that he would have me do.

I met last week with two fathers in the community who are part of a group that meets every few months to share stories about life.  I met my friend John through this group.

The three of us were planning the next get together.  The last time we gathered everyone answered the same question:  ”I never thought I’d…”  So, we were trying to come up with a question for this gathering.

Since we all had kids, I had what I thought was a great idea:

“I got it right as a parent when…..”

Their response?

No, then some people will use that to brag about their kids and make the rest of us feel bad.

“Okay,”  I said, “how about ‘I got it wrong with my kids when…’”

They were not impressed.

” Maybe…but we really like the idea of ‘wear your favorite t-shirt and tell us why…’”

“Lame…”I thought.  It isn’t even a question!

They ran it by some other key people in the group to see which of the three they wanted to do. Their response:  ”We talk enough about our kids,” they said…”Let’s do the t-shirt”.

In this interaction, God reminded me of what he was doing in my relationship with this community.  This was my opportunity to take off my pastor cap, my leader cap, and whatever cap I have worn over the years and just be a human being who is a part of this group.  I am here to be in relationship without any control over the group.

Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have.  But do this with gentleness and respect…                                                                I Peter 3:15b

Amen.

Front Door Gathering #3:  Drawn Out

An “On-line” Class

  1. Introduction:
      a. Look in your annual report at the section entitled, Drawn Out.

b. Read read that section’s articles.

c. Notice the two values related to this step.  Get a grasp of what they mean.

       

2.  On-line:  watch this video clip:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=arxfLK_sd68

a.  How does this connect with your experience of church?  How the “missional church” model relate to what you have experienced at this church?

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3.   Check out the church website (www.silverlakechurch.com).  Especially:

a.  Look at the four video clips on the welcome page.  How do these clips express our church’s relationship with the community?

b.  Look at the Silver Lake page.  Read the list of organizations that meet on our church.  Click the link and read about a few that interest you.

c.  Look at the “find help” and “request prayer” options on the bottom of each page.  Feel free to add a prayer to the prayer wall.

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4.    Silverlake Church reaches out to the community in a variety of ways.

a.   Check out the Tirzah In Burundi:  A special day for rejoicing video on youtube.  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HvcM5bmJ-Uk  This speaks of a long term partnership we have with the people of

Bujumbura, Burundi.  Thoughts on this relationship?

b.  Check out the interview:  http://www.themissionalnetwork.com/index.php/our-blog/stories-from-north-america/233-moving-back-into-the-neighborhood-l

c.  check out Silverlake Church on yelp!.  How do the comments connect with your time at Silverlake Church?  To they reflect the “drawn out” nature of

the church?  Feel free to add your comments to the yelp! section.

See you at our May gathering!

 

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13 But now in Christ Jesus you who once were far away have been brought near by the blood of Christ.

14 For he himself is our peace, who has made the two groups one and has destroyed the barrier, the dividing wall of hostility, 15 by setting aside in his flesh the law with its commands and regulations. His purpose was to create in himself one new humanity out of the two, thus making peace, 16 and in one body to reconcile both of them to God through the cross, by which he put to death their hostility. 17 He came and preached peace to you who were far away and peace to those who were near. 18 For through him we both have access to the Father by one Spirit.                                                                                                                                                      …………………………………………………………………………………………………………..Ephesians 2

 

When I was in elementary school my family visited South Africa.  At that time the country was under the power of apartheid.  It didn’t take us long to experience this.

 My father, mother, two sisters and I were packed, along with all of our luggage, into our taxi in Johannesburg.  I was looking out the windows eager to see everything in this new country.  I remember being surprised to see freeways and sky scrapers reminiscent of the United States.  I also remember being suddenly afraid when the taxi driver sped up as we were heading straight for a young woman in the middle of the street.  The light had changed before this woman had made it to the other side of the road.  She was a black African.  Our taxi driver was Afrikaans.  At the last moment he hit his brakes as hard as he had pressed the accelerator.  Our car stopped only inches away from this woman, who now had tears of fear in her eyes.  The cab driver said in a gruff voice, “Those women donkeys.  They don’t know nuthin’.”  My father quickly grabbed my sister, who was lunging toward the cab driver in hurt and anger at what he had done.

 I realized what an amazing country the United States is.  We have had our own problems with intolerance and exclusion of people unlike those in power.  But this experience taught me that we have come a long way.  Thankfully South Africa has come out from under apartheid since that time.  But there are still far too many places on this planet where intolerance and exclusion reign and inclusivity is only a dream.

This commitment to inclusivity, this public will to battle exclusivity in our society, is a wonderful thing.  But it is hard to square with some aspects of our faith.  This is true of the 10 commandments which is our focus during this sermon series.  It is even more true of the first commandment with is our focus for this morning; “Thou shalt have no other gods before me.”  

However, rather than making an apology for this commandment, I am going to argue that “Thou shalt have no other gods before me”, though exclusive in its claims upon the human heart, is actually the source of the greatest plan for inclusivity the human race has ever known.

God has always been committed to inclusivity.  I know that there are many in our community, even some in our church, who find this hard to believe. Religion, including Judaism and Christianity, are often spoken of in the public square as if they are the source of all of the wounds, divisions and wars on this planet.  But if you take a step back and read the Bible for what is says you find a very different story being told.

 Last week, for example, we spoke of the very special relationship God made with Abram in Genesis 12.  

      12 The Lord had said to Abram, ‘Go from your country, your people and your father’s household to the land I will show you.

‘I will make you into a great nation,
    and I will bless you;
I will make your name great,
    and you will be a blessing.

I will bless those who bless you,
    and whoever curses you I will curse;
and all peoples on earth
    will be blessed through you.’

Verses one and two of this passage seem to support the stereotype of religion as the source of human division.  But don’t skip over the last phrase:  ”and all peoples on earth will be blessed through you.”  God is offering an exclusive relationship with Abram and his progeny.  But the point of the exclusive relationship is inclusivity.  

Let’s step back even further and take a “macro-look” at Genesis.  Genesis one speaks of a harmony between God, creation and humanity.  But division comes when human beings decide to do things in their own way, according to their own will, rather than following God.  The result, demonstrated from creation to the story of Abram in Genesis 12, is of the progressive unraveling of the relationship between God and humanity, humanity and creation, and humans and humans. 

God responds to these human divisions, sourced in our decisions, not God’s, by offering an exclusive relationship with Abram.  That special relationship or covenant is one in which his family will again walk with God and, over the generations, be shaped by that relationship into a people who will draw others back into relationship with God.  The plan is for everyone to be brought back into relationship with each other and with creation by getting back into relationship with God. 

God has always been committed to inclusivity.

The ten commandments are part of that plan.  Under Moses’ leadership a group of Abraham’s descendants were liberated from slavery in Egypt.  They had recommitted to follow this God who had given them their freedom.  And God provided the ten commandments to help them grow into a community who witnessed to the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob in the very way they related to each other.  This law would help them to distinguish themselves from other cultures.  It would help them become a source of peach and reconciliation to all of the other cultures around them. 

When my 14 year old son was quite a bit younger we had to establish right and wrong with him.  He was becoming more mobile and more precocious and we needed to draw clear lines for him.  

We were distressed when he would follow up our rules by testing them.  We would make it clear what he should not do and he would immediately do it again!  We were frustrated that he did not immediately obey us until someone much wiser made it clear what was really going on.  Our son wasn’t just being a “rebel without a cause”.  He was testing the boundaries we had established in order to be certain that they were really there.  And once he was sure they were their he would turn his attention to growing and developing within those bounds.

It became clear that these boundaries made him a happier kid.  He wasn’t anxious or insecure.  Instead he became very confident and was free to explore all of the wonderful things his life had to offer.  

The law is meant to function in this way for us in Christ as well.  They aren’t random dictates by an power hungry God.  They provide boundaries of right and wrong which can provide us a kind of security and sense of belonging that free us to explore all of the blessings and wonder of life with courage and without fear.  They are part of the way that we share in the peace and reconciliation of God.

What is intended and what actually happens are not always in alignment, even for God.

Most followers of God understand that the commandments are meant to distinguish us from others.  But we often use the commandments to establish our identity as those who are better than the people who do not have the law.  And this short circuits God’s plan to bless others through us.  Our exclusive relationship with God becomes a means of excluding rather than including others.  

I was talking with my atheist film maker friend about this.  He loves to put up the really outlandish things that Christians do on his facebook page.  He has regular installments which, sadly, are easy to come by.  I couldn’t defend the things conservative Christians do in public.  But I could at least try to help him understand where they were coming from.  

My theory is that the most outlandish things that we do stem from insecurity.  The church in the West is used to being in the majority.  Now, however, we find ourselves in the minority.  Many cherished ideas, norms and beliefs of the church are being pushed aside.  This makes some in the church insecure.  We feel like we don’t belong in our own country.  And that insecurity and fear moves us to action.  We make plans to try to regain the power that we have lost.  We fight to be in the majority once again.  

One of the key ways we fight this battle is with the law; especially with the ten commandments.  We try to get our laws to become the law of the land.  We denounce people who disagree with our strategies.  We make our beliefs a source of exclusivity.  And we are no longer part of God’s plan to draw human beings together around him.  

We aren’t the only ones with this problem.  The people of Israel had a very similar struggle in their own context.    For a very long time God’s people in the Old Testament sought to combine faith in God with exclusivity.    The prophets were witnesses to much of this behavior.

God’s people have not always shared God’s heart for inclusivity and by the time we get to the prophet Isaiah a different plan of God’s inclusivity emerges.  The covenant of God to Abraham narrows from one community to one person.  At the end of chapter 52 Isaiah begins to describe, not a community, but one person who will be a blessing to all of humanity…

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See, my servant will act wisely;

    he will be raised and lifted up and highly exalted.

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Just as there were many who were appalled at him—

    his appearance was so disfigured beyond that of any human being

    and his form marred beyond human likeness—

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so he will sprinkle many nations,

    and kings will shut their mouths because of him.

For what they were not told, they will see,

    and what they have not heard, they will understand.

 Isaiah continues his description in the next chapter.  

Surely he took up our pain

    and bore our suffering,

yet we considered him punished by God,

    stricken by him, and afflicted.

But he was pierced for our transgressions,

    he was crushed for our iniquities;

the punishment that brought us peace was on him,

    and by his wounds we are healed.

We all, like sheep, have gone astray,

    each of us has turned to our own way;

and the Lord has laid on him

    the iniquity of us all.

 One person would, not only demonstrate God to all of humanity, but this same person would actually open the way for all of humanity to gather together around God by grace.  This one person would be the ultimate expression of God’s inclusivity.

When the early church re-read this passage, they saw the image of Jesus very clearly in this description.  Jesus is the ultimate expression of God’s inclusivity.

 This is what Paul, speaking from the other side of the resurrection, is saying in the first verse of our reading this morning:

13 But now in Christ Jesus you who once were far away have been brought near by the blood of Christ.

He is writing to a primarily non-Jewish congregation.  They are aware that they have not followed that God or his ways.  They have come to know the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob through Jesus.  And Paul’s words here are a word of encouragement for them.  Though you are not part of the family tree with whom God established his covenant, he says, you belong.  Though you are not related by blood to the One who embodied God, you are safe and secure with God through faith in Jesus Christ.

 14 For he himself is our peace, who has made the two groups one and has destroyed the barrier, the dividing wall of hostility… 

And brothers and sisters, this is true for all of us as well.  Through faith in Christ all of the barriers are destroyed.  We are safe.  We are secure.  We belong.

This is true, not only of the barriers between us and God, but of the barriers between humans and creation and the barriers between human beings.  When we enter into this exclusive relationship with God through Jesus Christ we become a proactive part of God’s plan to include all of humanity in his peace and reconciliation.  

Paul continues:

14 For he himself is our peace, who has made the two groups one and has destroyed the barrier, the dividing wall of hostility, 15 by setting aside in his flesh the law with its commands and regulations. His purpose was to create in himself one new humanity out of the two, thus making peace, 16 and in one body to reconcile both of them to God through the cross, by which he put to death their hostility. 

I have spoken of the misuse of the law by conservatives in the church.  But this misuse of the law is not limited to one slice of the church.  

I was at a conference last week to discuss the challenge of breaking down the walls between church and community.  I was joined by church leaders in Anglican (or Episcopalian) churches, as well as other mainline denominations.  Most were political liberals.  In our time together it became very clear that they stood to the left of the wall between liberal and conservative in our country.  

One night, at dinner, I was talking to a couple of Anglicans.  Their church, as many others, is struggling over the issue of gay and lesbian leadership in the church.  But their struggle was global.  Rather than battling between liberal and conservative in this country, the dividing wall of hostility was constructed between Anglicans in Africa, particularly Nigeria.  and Anglicans in the West, particularly the United States.  

The two white North Americans with whom I was speaking were fully committed to the inclusion of gay and lesbian people in the leadership of the church.  And they were very frustrated by the Nigerian Anglicans who did not agree with them.  One of them said something to the effect of , “It will take twenty years for them to come around to our side.”   

I thought that was a very interesting comment, given that it has taken the Anglican church in the West many, many centuries to come to the opinion they hold now.  ”Really,”  I said, “you think that will happen in twenty years?”  ”Yes, the other one offered, suggesting that the Nigerian culture will develop and they will come to see what is right.”  

I was beginning to hear some paternalism from my liberal friends.  This paternalism enables us to speak of other ancient cultures as if they are backward.  Along with our own sense of self-righteous anger it can build a wall that divides us from those who are not like us.  If this wall is allowed to continue we could begin down a path which justifies actions like that of the South African cab driver.  ”Those people don’t know nuthin’.

This is certainly what the Nigerian Anglicans experience.  They have told Western Anglicans that this attempt to make them have this same commitment to inclusivity reminds them of Western colonialism.  It is simply a new form of the West telling the Africans how they should live.  It is yet another attempt to discredit their culture on the basis of an unexamined sense of the superiority of our own.

And here we have the weakness of our culture’s approach to inclusivity.  Though there is much to be admired, our approach is still based upon power.  Those working to bring inclusivity to our nation do so through channels of power.  Those who feel that we are losing things that are essential to our culture fight back through channels of power.  The only way to win is for one side to overwhelm the other and force them to be silent and to submit to the reigning view.  The result, then, is not the tearing down of these walls between people.  Our efforts at inclusion actually strengthen them. 

If inclusivity is truly our goal, we must find a way which is not based upon power, but upon love.  And we have such a path clearly marked by the cross of Jesus Christ.

When we look to the cross we see God’s commitment to inclusivity based upon love.  Jesus took the sins of liberals and conservatives, of Westerners and non-Westerners, of rich and poor upon himself as he hung on the cross.  Through his death the covenant of Abraham came to fruition.  All nations are indeed blessed through the relationship he had with God.  Anyone and everyone can access God through Christ by faith.  And as people gather together around this exclusive relationship with God in Christ they are drawn together.  Wounds are healed, sins are forgiven, a new way of life is begun; a life of peace and reconciliation.  A life of inclusion.  

Many of you have heard of Desmond Tutu; the Anglican Bishop from South Africa.  He grew up in the days of apartheid.  When he was a child it was standard practice for a black person to step off the pavement into the gutter to allow the white person to pass, giving the white person this gesture of respect.  But one day when Tutu was a little boy, he and his mother were walking down the street when a tall white man, dressed in a black suit, came toward them.  Before he and his mother could step off the sidewalk, as was expected, the man stepped off the sidewalk and, as his mother passed by, tipped his hat in a gesture of respect to her.  Though Tutu was only a young child, this act of love struck him deeply.  He asked his mother, “Why did that white man do that?  She said, “He’s an Anglican priest.  He’s a man of God, that’s why he did it.”

 That was the moment that Desmond Tutu decided to be an Anglican priest.  Not only this, that was the moment when he decided to be a man of God.*

Paul concludes our passage with this:

17 He came and preached peace to you who were far away and peace to those who were near. 18 For through him we both have access to the Father by one Spirit.

Brothers and sisters, may we commit ourselves to the true path of inclusion.  May we commit ourselves to the peace and reconciliation of Jesus Christ.

Amen.

 

*From “Let Me Tell You a Story” by Tony Campolo.

 

My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?
    Why are you so far from saving me,
    so far from my cries of anguish?

My God, I cry out by day, but you do not answer,

    by night, but I find no rest.

Yet you are enthroned as the Holy One;
    you are the one Israel praises.

In you our ancestors put their trust;
   ……………………………………………………………………………. they trusted and you delivered …………………………………………………………………………………them.

……………………………………………………………………………….To you they cried out and were …………………………………………………………………………………saved;
    …………………………………………………………………………….in you they trusted and were not ………………………………………………………………………………..put to shame.

  ………………………………………………………………………………………….Psalm 22: 1-5

On July 21, 1942 a Nazi killing squad appeard at the entrance to Nesvizh, a small town in Easter Poland under German control.  The 585 Jews in the community had learned of other Jewish communities being massacred nearby and had planned to resist when the Nazi killing squad came to their gate.  The Nazi killing squad arrived and the Jewish leader, a man named Shalom Cholawski, stood bravely at the gate to announce their armed resistance to the German plans to execute them.

German gunfire rang out.  The Jewish people defended themselves with knives and irons.   Soon the streets were filled with the dead and the dying.  Then, as planned, the villagers set fire to their community to provide cover for any who might be able to flee and get to the forest nearby.

As the flames spread, the town exploded into chaos.  Neighbors of the village began to arrive on the scene.  Local testimony tells us the following:  ”A horde of local peasants…swarmed into the ghetto, (looting) before all was devoured by fire.”  The madness of their pillaging and the fury of the Germans to kill matched the frenzy of every Jew, man, woman and child, to flee from the burning ghetto.  Surviving Jews remember seeing crowds of non-Jews with their arms full of clothes and goods, wildly jumping and jeering whenever a Jew was shot.  Some of the Jews got out of the ghetto and ran toward the forest, only to be beaten by peasants.  Others were killed in flight.

Can anyone guess the faith of the peasants in that town?  They weren’t Jewish.  They were Christian.  Their faith told them, as one of the central tenets of the religion, to “love your neighbor as yourself”.   But when the time came for them to practice their faith, it was as if they had never heard of Christ before.

Why didn’t their faith have a deeper impact than this?

As the Christians of our community in this generation, we had better ask this question now.  We must learn from this failure so that, when the time comes for our faith to be tested, we will respond with a character that reflects our Lord Jesus Christ.

This isn’t the only time in history that Christianity has failed in this way.  During World War II, the extreme moral failure of the neighbors of Nesvizh occurred in towns and communities all over Europe.  And distressingly, there are more contemporary examples as well.

We have a commitment to Peace’s ministry in Burundi.  We have heard about the genocide in Rwanda, but did you know that in the early 1990s over 300,000 were killed in ethnic violence between Hutu and Tutsi in Burundi?  What makes this even more tragic is that in the early 1900s Rwanda, Burundi and Uganda experienced the “East African Revival”.  By the time of the genocide over 90% of the people in this area called themselves by the name of Christ.

And if we go back in history to the triumphal entry, which we celebrate as Palm Sunday, we find a similar moral failure at work.  This story begins with Jesus coming into Jerusalem on a donkey.  He is being welcomed with honor and praise.  ”Hosanna!”, they said as they laid down palms and clothing, their version of the red carpet.  But a few chapters later the crowd in Jerusalem is calling out for Jesus to be crucified.  And with jeers and taunts he is nailed to the cross and dies.

In this case I think we get some insight into what causes such huge moral failures.  When Jesus was entering Jerusalem the people saw him as the promised King.  They believed that he would be the one they had waited for who would liberate Jerusalem from the Romans.  But when Jesus was in the city he went to the Temple and announced judgement on the way they were doing church.  He caused quite a scene by overturning tables and stopping the Temple from functioning.  By the time he was arrested it was clear that he was not who they wanted him to be.

After many years in ministry, and many more as a follower of Christ, I believe that this is the root of the problem.  So many of us who follow Christ turn to him  so that he will enable us to achieve what we have not been able to achieve in our lives.  And, for a time, Jesus will play that game.  But sooner or later he will take our lives on a path other than what we desire.  Then we get upset and angry at him.  And we decide “If its’ going to be, its up to me!”  We set our will upon our goal and watch out for anyone who gets in our way.

But it is our will that is the problem.  We talk a lot about freedom of the will.  We want to be free to do whatever we desire.  But all this does is reduce our relationships to yet another way that we fulfill the desire what we want for ourselves.  Such freedom gets us no further than the most powerful, the most wealthy, the most self-centered humans.  We become like them rather than becoming like Christ.

I am convinced that our need is not for freedom of the will, but freedom from the will.  It is our addiction to fulfilling our will that is the core reason for the gap between Christianity in the life of Jesus and Christianity in our lives.  Letting go of our will is one of the hardest things for us to do.  Holding onto our will blocks the deeper work of healing and freedom that God wants to do in our lives.

I didn’t come up with this on my own.  Freedom from the will is a major theme in the Bible, expressed in all sorts of ways.  John the Baptist, for example, looked at Jesus and said, “He must become greater.  I must become less.”  Jesus himself said that anyone who wanted to call themselves by his name must deny themselves, take up the cross and follow him.”  And this wasn’t just “talk”.  In Psalm 22 Jesus shows us his willingness to be free from the will.

You see, Psalm 22 isn’t simply the words of King David.  These are also the words spoken by Jesus when he was crucified in the gospels of Matthew and Mark.

 My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?

      Why are you so far from saving me,

      so far from my cries of anguish?

    My God, I cry out by day, but you do not answer,

     by night, but I find no rest.

Jesus remembered this psalm while he was dying on the cross.  His words were the completion of the struggle that he had with his own desire for self-preservation and the call of the Father on his life.  You see, Jesus struggled in his final steps toward the cross.

Remember the garden of Gethsemane?  It was there that Jesus struggled with the path before him.  He wanted to live.  But God needed him to sacrifice himself for our sake.  In this sacrifice he would be the ultimate expression of the love of God.  He would show us that God was willing to do what Abraham was only asked to do:  to sacrifice his son.  Jesus knew that what God asked of him would save so many other people.  He knew it was the right thing to do.  But he didn’t want to give up his will.  He didn’t want to let go of self-preservation.  He didn’t want to die.  But he decided to follow the Father’s will and not his own.  He said, “Father, if you are willing, take this cup from me; yet not my will, but yours be done.”

Jesus gave up his will.  But for so many of us who call ourselves by his name, our will wins out.  And as soon as we decide to follow our will and not God’s we lose any resemblance we had with our Savior.  Jesus gave up his will.  We must give up our will as well.

One Jewish woman in the village of Nesvizh, Simcha Rosen, ran away from the burning village and toward the safety of the forest.  As she passed the gate of the village she handed her small son, wrapped in pillows, to a Christian woman standing near the gate.  Then she kept running toward the woods.

Now that Christian woman had to make a decision.  Would she protect the Jewish child?  Would she take the chance of losing her life?  Would she endanger her family for the sake of this child?  Or would she turn the child over to the Nazi’s to be killed?  This was the moment where her faith or lack of faith would become concrete.  Her decision would make it clear whether she had the character of Christ.

We will all be given the same challenge.  Few of us will have anything so dramatic happen in our lives.  But we will all find ourselves in a position where we have to choose between Christ-likeness and self-preservation.  We will be challenged to give up our will and follow God’s will.  What will you do?

This is the sixth “step with the Spirit”.  Through this Lenten season we have talked about practical ways that we experience our relationship with God through Jesus Christ.  We talked about the fact that God is always at work around us.  We talked about God’s desire to have a relationship with us that is real and personal.  We talked about God inviting us to become involved with him in his work.  We discussed the ways in which God speaks to us through the Holy Spirit; through the Scripture, through prayer, through circumstances and through the church.  This is how he reveals himself and his ways.  Last week we looked at the way in which God’s invitation for us to work with him leads us to a crisis of faith.  He calls us to do things that are “out of our comfort zone” and we have to be willing to take on that challenge.  Today we are looking at the next step which is really a continuation of this fifth step.  The sixth step is that we have to make major adjustments to our lives if we are going to join God in what he is doing.  These steps together emphasize the importance of submitting our will to the will of God.

Many of us have met Peace Nihrombere.  We have experienced the Christ-likeness that just exudes from her.  This character isn’t just an accident.  It is the fruit of her willingness to submit her will to the will of God.

Peace was in Burundi during the genocide mentioned earlier.  She lost family members in the violence and had to hide in a lake to escape her own death.  She managed to get out of Burundi and set up a nice life in Canada with her husband and children.   But it became clear to her over time that God was challenging her to return to her home country.  And she set aside her desire for self-preservation and went.  The two teams we have sent to Burundi can testify to the impact she is having on the lives of countless women, and through them their children, in the work she is doing with God in Bujumbura.

What would it have taken for the people around Jesus on that first Easter week to have supported Jesus?  What kind of a change would they have had to make to sing “Hosanna” to him, not only when he was doing what they wanted him to do, but also when he was doing something threatening that they did not understand?  What would it have taken for the people to have made the right choice after that Palm Sunday?

What do you have to shift in order to follow Jesus this Palm Sunday?  What part of your life do you have to control?  What part of your life is a “no go zone” for God?

If you are struggling to get a handle on this, let me ask the question in a different way.  What is it which, when threatened, brings out the worst in you?  What circumstances in your life can take away all of your joy, love and peace?  What brings out your anger, your anxiety and your worry?  This is the thing that you need to confess to God.

Take a piece of paper and write the words of John the Baptist at the top:  ”He must become greater; I must become less.”   Then, underneath this banner, write out a confession of that which you hold tightly in your will.  This is an important step in submitting to the will of God.

It is this desire for control that put Jesus on the cross.  It was Jesus’ willingness to give up control that opened up a way for us to be back in relationship with God.  All of those self-centered acts of the will hurt others.  And it isn’t enough to justify ourselves by recounting how we were hurt and that is why we hurt others.  Our acts of the will which run rough shod over others are unjust.  Justice calls for a price to be paid.  And Jesus took the price for our will upon himself:  ”My God, My God, why have you forsaken me?  Why are you so far from saving me?  So far from my groaning?”  Jesus expresses the torment of life experienced without the will of God.  All that is left is our own selfish ego and desires.  All that is left is our wounds inflicted upon each other as we try to promote our own well being at all costs.  He took this upon himself that we might be freed; that we might be freed from the will.

Psalm 22 continues:

Yet you are enthroned as the Holy One;

    you are the one Israel praises.

In you our ancestors put their trust;

    they trusted and you delivered them.

To you they cried out and were saved;

    in you they trusted and were not put to shame.

Jesus gave up his own will.  Now his only hope is his trust in the Lord.  He trusted and was not put to shame.  For now the name of Jesus is the name which brings freedom, peace and healing to millions.  And when we confess our sins and rely solely upon the Lord we will not be put to shame.  Instead we will take a step forward in our life becoming a source of healing and blessing to those around us.  Our lives will become the proof that the gospel is indeed good news.

A number of months after I graduated from college, I found myself talking with a middle-aged Honduran couple on an island called “La Isla del Tigre”.  I had just told the couple about my faith in Christ, how it had made such a difference in my life, and how it was available for them as well.  I did it all in Spanish and was pretty happy with the results.  But then I heard their response.  They said, “We’ve heard that before.  But it never made any difference on this island.”

Brothers and sisters, we are surrounded by people who have heard the gospel in some form or another.  Maybe it was distorted and maybe it was incomplete, but they have heard about Jesus.  But these same people have plenty of evidence that the good news doesn’t work.  It isn’t just the big events in history like the holocaust that form their evidence.  More important to them is every encounter they have had with a person who calls themselves by the name of Jesus but treat people who aren’t like them as lepers.  They treat others as if there is something wrong with them, that they will somehow be infected if they build a relationship with them and they push them away.   It is every encounter with a church which is self-centered,  judgemental, and dismissive of people who are not worshipping with them.  It is every time someone shoves Christianity in their face to appease their own guilt instead of loving them where they are.  The only way to counter this evidence is to insure that they meet people who have truly been changed by the gospel, people whose live has been deeply transformed.  Then they will see that the good news is not just talk, not just a play for power, not just mythology.  Then they will see that the gospel is real.

Let’s agree to let God free us from our will.  Let’s commit to being what the world desperately needs in order to hear the good news of Christ.

“But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion for him; he ran to his son, threw his arms around him and kissed him.”             Luke 15:20b

We seek to embody the love of God which is expressed so beautifully in the passage above.  We recognize that this is a bold statement for a church to make.  In the best of times human communities, the church included, tend to limit our compassion to those who are with us.  In times of uncertainty and change humans tend to build communities motivated by fear.  When power is up for grabs we demonize “the other”.  But out of our own admitted weakness, we at Silverlake Church trust that the love of God which drew us to Christ in the first place is stronger than human nature.  We value the 100th sheep.

Jesus’ story, mentioned above, is one of three stories that Jesus tells to a group of church people.  They were concerned that Jesus’ congregation welcomed people whom the church looked down upon.  He responds by telling them three stories with a common theme.  He tells of a shepherd, of a woman, and of a man.  Each has missed something they once knew; a sheep, a coin, a son.  Each is in a search to find what was lost.  Each embraces what is found.  And each throws a party to celebrate.  Jesus tells these stories In Luke 15 to explain his life-motive.  In these stories he illustrates the very heart of the love of God.

We are not the first to try to live out these stories in our own community.  Many have tried to emulate Jesus by taking the side of those who have been rejected in their society.  This has become a common place in our post-modern, Western society.  Such success, however, haven’t changed the deep divisions between human beings.  We have simply swapped roles.  The oppressor is overthrown and becomes the oppressed.   The oppressed, over time, becomes the new oppressor.  But Jesus came, not for a wardrobe change, but for a radically new way of being human together.

We believe that it is by sharing the motive of Jesus, rather than the concrete expression of that motive in Jesus’ day, that is key.  Our love must transcend the battle lines of  church and society if we are to emulate Jesus.

Doctors without Borders is one of the few NGO’s working in Somalia.  For their efforts, the African Union has called them “the surgeons of the enemy”, according to NPR.  They provide medical care for everyone in a wartime situation no matter what side they are on.  All sides in the struggle for power attempt to co-opt them.  They have to stay vigilant if they are going to continue to provide medical assistance to those in need.

Silverlake Church, in a less dramatic way,  seeks to provide what we can to those in our community.  We do not exist to take sides in the various cultural and ecclesiastical wars of our day.  Our goal is to express the love of God to everyone in this community, indeed, to everyone in the world.  We will develop our expressions of this love with freedom and creativity as we build relationships with all whom we meet.  In this way we will work beyond the ideological powers of our day and share in the compassionate embrace of God in Christ.

We would love you to join us in 2012.

Silverlake Church is a community of people who pursue a relationship with God through Jesus Christ.  We are in different places in that journey.  We gather together at different times and different places for different purposes.  We worship, we serve, we pray, we ask questions.  We do so with all sorts of mixed and diverse motives.  But the whole reason for our existence is the idea that in Jesus Christ a new kind of relationship with God is possible.  Through Jesus Christ we are surrounded by God.

Christmas is important to us.  It is a moment when the past, the present and the future come together in one celebration.  We remember when the wise men came “from afar” seeking the one who had been born King of the Jews.  We see ourselves in their faces.  The story from the past in the gospel of Matthew becomes a story of our present.  We too are seeking the one who has been born King of the Jews.  We join the wise men in worshipping the Christ child.  Our minds move from the present to the future.  We long for the day when the good will of God, expressed in the birth of Jesus, and the peace with God, evinced through Easter, become everything in the return of Jesus.  Jesus is our past, our present and our future.  O Come, O Come Emmanuel!

This Christmas season we find ourselves bundled in the warm blanket of God’s love.  We celebrate by serving others in our food pantry.  We celebrate by surrounding Christmas day with worship on the night before and the day after.  We celebrate by sharing gifts with one another.  The more, the merrier!  Join us!

(artwork:  His Star – Duncan Long)

 

 

The church stinks.  It doesn’t have to stink. As a matter of fact, it often hasn’t stunk. The church always has the potential to be a wonderful aroma like bacon, eggs and coffee. The church is meant to be a joy to inhale…even if you aren’t hungry.

Many in our community have been hurt by the church.  Some of us have been involved in a congregation and experienced pain and disillusionment. Others of us have had just enough of a taste of Christianity to support the stereotypes of church as judgmental, harsh and divisive.  But at Silverlake Church we are experiencing something else. Our church smells different!

The words of one of the earliest Christians are starting to make some sense to us. Fourteen centuries before the Sufi mystic Abu al-Hasan al-Shadhili ran across the coffee bean in Ethiopia, a man wrote a letter to a church in Greece, saying  ”…we are to God the pleasing aroma of Christ…”  (2 Corinthians 2:15a)  Could this be what God is brewing among us at Silverlake?

Over the next three Sundays we are going to talk about the essence of this aroma.  It is an aroma of security and rootedness, not judgment.  It is an aroma of the whole hearted pursuit of love instead of self-promotion.  It is the aroma of truly desiring to work out our differences rather than divisiveness.  This is the aroma of Christ.  This is what God is “cooking up” in our midst.

I look forward to dialoguing with you over the next three Sundays!  But feel free to comment now on this site or on the Silverlake church facebook site.  Let the conversation begin because God already has!

“Easter is a pre-Western, pre-modern, festival which began almost 2,000 years ago.  Since that time Christians from every continent on the planet have celebrated Jesus’ death and resurrection at one time or another.  Now it is Silverlake’s turn and you are invited!

On April 1 the community will gather at 7pm for Maundy Thursday.  “Maundy” is a Latin word, meaning “command”.  Jesus once said, “A new command I give you; love one another.”  So, on the eve of Jesus’ death we will gather to remember Jesus’ love and work together to love our community as Jesus loved us.

On April 2 the church will open at 11:15pm for a time of self-guided meditation.  In the darkness of that night we will consider Jesus’ death.  We will have opportunity to look into the darkness of the world.  We will reflect upon our own death. The church bell will toll at midnight and we will leave in silence.

On April 4 we will gather again at 9:30am for breakfast.  At 10:30 we will move to the sanctuary to celebrate the resurrection of Jesus and to consider the implications.  If Jesus died and rose again, our death is no longer a threat.  Now it is another step into the eternal love of God.  Our celebration will continue after the service with coffee on the patio and an easter egg hunt for the kids.

Whether you are a regular part of our church family, a follower of Jesus, or you aren’t sure what you think of all of this, you are welcome to join us in considering the nature of love, the reality of death, and the joy of new life.  This is an opportunity to be part of something that transcends any barriers.  It is a chance to experience an ongoing story that is bigger than any of us.  Join us!

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Silverlake Church is a community of people committed to living out our beliefs, dreams, and  faith in Jesus Christ. We are not simply about words, promises or rules.  We are about experiencing the transforming power of Jesus Christ in our lives and relationships. In an urban area where people are often anonymous, Silverlake is a place where you can know and be known while moving forward in your spiritual journey.

Silverlake Community Church is located at 2930 Hyperion Avenue, Los Angeles, CA 90027.  The church office is open on Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday from 9am-3pm.  Our phone number is 323-663-3151.

We gather for worship on Sunday morning at 10:30am. On Wednesday nights we study the Bible together starting at 7pm.  Child care is available at both gathering.  All are welcome!

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